#For baby Fundy

[sadieshavingsex]

wow. there is no one who can love you the way you want and need to be loved except yourself. there is no one who can undo and replace the painful upbringing you received from your parents or your God but yourself. nobody is ever going to be able to provide the level of care, understanding, and due diligence required to help you heal. nobody. nobody else can fix you and help you. you are the only person who can fully love yourself, know yourself, understand yourself. it’s you. it has to be you. nobody else can ever give you that or be that for you

[cinn-namon]

Wilbur! WIlbur that's not how you hold a child! WILBUR

(had help with the hair)

[gxlden-angels]

I love getting validated on small things that I didn't even consider like it's always a treat and this time it's Gender

The Fundie Baby Voice™️ has been popping up a lot in ex-christian spaces lately and I actually had one in middle school and part of high school! I learned when and where to use it and how to turn up my southern accent just enough. I can still do it but it sounds weird after 3 years on T. The main place I used it was at church cause it made me sound sweet and polite. I used it for old ladies when I worked at a grocery store too. My family didn't like it when we were just all together cause they said it sounded like baby talk, but loved it when I used it at church cause everyone would tell them how sweet and soft-spoken I was

My therapist said it actively made him feel uncomfortable when I used that voice. He couldn't quite put his finger on why it made him uncomfortable (other than him only knowing me on T) but he very much did not like it and he's so so right for that

[spurgie-cousin]

genuine question, has the Bates subreddit been over taken by fans?? I haven't been there in a while until today, and I'm all for being objective, but these people seem to legitimately love the Bates.......

people are going to bat for Lawson ffs, trying to make the argument that he's not annoying like........ I'm sorry you have to be a fan to hold that opinion lol

[fundiepredictions]

Stats (part eight)

Smallest marriage to baby #1

Paul&Christina Caldwell (222 days)

Lincoln&Susanna Bontrager (~233 days)

Jonathan&Kaylee Hill (242 days)

Evan&Carlin Stewart (251 days)

Joseph&Kendra Duggar (273 days)

Austin&Joy Forsyth (273 days)

Jeremiah&Hannah Duggar (274 days)

Drew&Susanna Jerred (275 days) new

Kelton&Josie Balka (287 days)

Mike&Suzette Keller (288 days)

Biggest marriage to Baby #1

Andrew&Kori Wissmann (2669 days)

Nathan&Melanie Maxwell (1880 days)

JimBob&Michelle Duggar (1321 days)

Alan&Rachel Businitz (1305 days)

Jesse&AnnaPatrice Maxwell (~1155 days)

Daniel&Bethany Beasley (858 days)

Steve&Teri Maxwell (841 days)

Lawson&Tiffany Bates (799 days) new

Jeremy&Jinger Vuolo (621 days)

Christopher&AnnaMarie Maxwell (589 days)

Newcomers in both lists. Funny that Susanna was just one day slower then her sister Hannah. And a lot of Maxwell couples are in the lower list

[millkywite]

Good afternoon.

Just passing here to remember everyone that C!Wilbur was the one to give birth to C!fundy.

[liberalsarecool]

Phrase of the moment. #FundieBabyVoice

Check out Jess Piper's substack. She grew up in a fundamentalist Missouri family. She recognized Katie Britt's breathy cadence and sense of superiority immediately.

[edzia121mc]

So we all know that q!wilbur is an apsent father and c!wilbur is just even worse. But everyone kept only thinking about tallulah. No one cared about my poor child c!Fundy. Tallulah since the begining had q!Phil or q!quackity but him? Yes he had c!eret and even in my fanfiction shes a great parent but in canon my boy had noone! Everyone eventually left him except his son! My baby even jumped just not to talk to his bio dad!

LIKE CMON C!FUNDY WAS STILL (I THINK) A CHILD OR AT LEAST A YOUNG ADULT. HE SERIOUSLY DESERVED TO FEEL LOVED. WHY IS NO ONE TALKING ABOUT HIM! LIKE YES I LOVE TALLULAH BUT HE SERIOUSLY DESERVED THE WORLD.

[countingandsnarkingon]

So like I have a birthday party coming up for a 3(?) year old (she’s the daughter of a family friend) and I know parents typically don’t want toys plus I know her uncles already spoil her rotten so, I got her some cute little books. I figured that was a good middle space and trying to foster a relationship with reading? Hell I’ll sit on the couch and read them to her if they want

[fundielicious-simblr]

abbeyh_

We can't wait to welcome a new member to our family later this year! This little one is so loved already, we can't wait to hold them in our arms. #pregnancyannouncement #winterbaby #excitedparents

brittanycdahlmann eeek! SO excited for you two! 💖

brittanycdahlmann So glad we get to be pregnant at the same time! My twin is having a baby! 🤰🏻💞👶🏼

maddiepaulson Congrats! So happy for you two! 🎉💖

maggiecwright Abbey's having a baby! Congratulations you guys! 💖

mason_adalynn_leonard PTL! Congrats on the new addition!

vtownsend Congrats Abbey & Adam! I've already got a guess on the gender!

[snapdragonsimming]

Most of my relatives owned birds (what a racket!) and at the foster homes there were always strange kids around, so growing up my morning routine wasn’t so much a “routine” as it was an exercise in anxiety-laden chaos. Now that I’m settled with a family of my own, things couldn’t be more different!

I always say my prayers right after I wake up, typically around 7:00. I’m so blessed that my girls know to keep themselves calm and quiet in the early hours— no 4AM wakeups in this house! I credit it all to our firm discipline style. Even though they’re still young we’re reaping the rewards already! 

I wish I could say the easy behavior continues once they're out of their cribs, but we're still working on our "staying still for Mommy" skills here in the Wagner household. Especially now that they’ve learned to crawl, getting them dressed and fed for the day can be quite a production!

Typically I give Colin a kiss at the door, but today I surprised him with a pregnancy test— that’s right, I’m expecting! I’m just on the line between the first and second trimester, and I’m feeling great. Praise Him for His gifts!

[zorishy]

how do argos and Wilson feel about each other

They’re actually from different universes

[clarkes-and-god]

"Momma, Neveah's being bad and crying! I told her to not do that but she's not listening. She's being a noisy little shit! You need to tell her off!"

"Too loud! Up please!"

"Mandy, stop saying those words! They're not nice, you know that. She's just scared of the storm, you girls need to be nice to each other."

"But Daddy says she's a noisy little shit! You need to tell her off or Daddy's gonna be mad. She's being mean to Daddy!"

"She has a point, I can't fucking concentrate with all that yelling. Can you shut her up?"

"Mom, what does "sexual immor-ally" mean? My booklet says we need to flee from it but we didn't learn about that at school. And where's whoredom? Why do girls go there? Are boys allowed too?"

"Sweetie, why don't you go onto the next question and I'll-"

"God, can't you control your own kids? She's still crying! Mandy was doing better at it than you, fucking hell."

"Thank you Daddy! I love you!"

"I can't believe you can't manage your own children, it's like a damn zoo in here. All this crying, and you can't even teach that idiot! God, maybe you should just put them back into school if you can't make them behave. Mandy, do you think Mom's doing a good job at looking after you?"

"Uhhh.... no? I think?"

"Your own daughter agrees with me! You go put them back in school, ok? I can't deal with them being this awful, those fucking liberal teachers are better at this than you."

"Baby, it's just because it's storming, and they can't play out. They'll be better when-"

"Just go do it! And shut that kid up!"

[spurgie-cousin]

ok here's some of the fundie social media moments I've thought were worthy of screenshotting over the last couple of days:

screenshoted these just bc The Duggars don't share many pics period

Catholica Pandam is getting ready to get married! I genuinely like her so I'm happy for her ☺️

Kelly has started a new "ministry" with its own women's retreat

This one is mostly just for the hat lmao but I really wish I could share this video too, bc Jill talks about having low energy on a bike ride with her kids due to the fact that she's on that stupid Plexus fast for the millionth time (but that's ok she says bc her stomach is getting flatter! 🙄) she then goes on to invite others to join her in starving themselves for superficial reasons

Carlin is on a trip (shocker) and woke her family up today at 3:30am for a morning photoshoot (another shocker). She says in a post that she's "never really done anything like this before", which I just have to heartily disagree with

[cheshirebond]

Why did the book of what if Tallulah and wilbur met Sally and Fundy again get more reads than well never leave a baby in a faes land 😕

[shinyhappysims]

Someone had an eventful Easter Sunday!

Jamilah texted me these pictures! Niran proposed to her after church service today! Apparently he asked Anwar for her hand and to keep that he was proposing a secret. I’m so happy for Jamjam! I know this is something she’s been looking forward to. Niran’s got a good head on his shoulders so hopefully he’ll help her mellow out a bit.

Yours, Isioma <3